Pole dacing is no longer for stripers.Women have lived lives of equal togetherness while also maintaining a sense of respect for each others solitude and individual conquests. Now most people would assume their lovers would also be one of their best friends if not “the” best. So what could be better than being able to enjoy those separate hobbies and interests with a significant other? I took my love for music, and my lover’s fondness of pole dancing, combined the two, (which already go hand in hand) and now use it to help her in creating routines and making musical choices when she goes out to perform. The look on my face as I sit back and watch her create art on a pole, changes from, “I’m proud that she’s doing this” to “I’m proud I helped and supported her in doing this”. A trophy would mean nothing if you couldn’t share it with someone. My special lady is currently putting her best effort into making only the best video submission that displays her talents, and send it off to the APFA’s upcoming event in hopes of competing. Even though its been tough in terms of coping with the amount of time dedicated to the art, since I’ve declared my love for her, I have nothing but the utmost understanding of what this means to her. I told her “regardless if you make the cut or not, the next rung on the ladder is up”. I feel with that unwavering support that I faithfully give her, there is nothing that she can’t handle. So when she goes out there to perform, or when she anxiously holds that returned letter in her hand from her submission, she will at least know in the back of her mind that I will love her and be proud of her despite what happens.